I was quite amused that the two senators bombarding Hayden Kho and Katrina Halili with really senseless questions were two of the most media-exposed senators.
Senator 1: So, (addressing Halili) what was in the video? Hindi ko kasi napanood eh.(I was not able to watch it.)
What the freaking fart? What was he doing questioning the persons concerned when he has not even seen the sex video that started it all? And who the heck was he fooling with his statement that he has not watched any of the videos?
Senator 2: Ngayon Dr. Kho, anong nararandaman mo ngayon kaharap mo ang babaing nilapastangan mo ang dangal? (Dr. Kho, what are your feelings now that you are face to face with the woman you have wronged?)
Crap! I thought I accidentally switched channels and was watching Boy Abunda himself! The hearing went on up to a point where Katrina Halili broke down and let out a string of expletives.To this, Senator 2 commented to Kho that if only he did not video tape his sexual exploits then there would not have been a problem. Kho was humbled and kept on apologizing. There was even an instance when a former police and now a Laguna town mayor who poured water on Kho's head. The mayor was identified as Abner Afuang. Talk about professionalism!A Roman Catholic Bishop expressed his displeasure with the ongoing Senate inquiry into the Hayden Kho-Katrina Halili sex video scandal as a waste of time and taxpayer’s money. I totally agree! There are a lot of more pressing issues like the economy, poverty, financial crisis, growing unemployment problem, agrarian reform and the spreading A(H1N1) virus.
I thought Senate hearings are for those issues with implications to national security. I just don't understand why the Senate has to make a big fuzz of the sex video scandal. Royalties?! The scandal would have died a natural death as all scandals naturally do. As I see it, Hayden and his sex partners were all victims here. Dr. Hayden Kho's profession as a doctor is forever compromised. I guess no one would totally trust him now as a doctor. His sexual partners were "exposed" in all their glory and I guess they feel shameful and violated. My distorted sense of thinking and humor tells me that Katrina Halili is actually reflectinig "S*it! nabisto tuloy na pakekak ako!"
We all have had our share of immoralities and "immortalities" - pictures, videos, text messages, letters or any tangible item that we sure wanted erased from the face of the earth. To the Senate clowns who are currently enjoying the freak show, I have two messages for you.
and
Look who's talking!
Because of the many calls and text messages that she has been receiving from various companies, daughter #4 reads all her text messages and answers all calls even if the numbers are not in her phonebook. The following is one heck of a text message (or for that matter, one hell of prank texter) that she received a couple of days ago.
PRANKSTER: Hi!
DAUGHTER: Who's this?
PRANKSTER: U gv ur nym frst.& bsde u mstkn dial my # s0 u supp0sd 2 entroduce ur slf 2 me. u r da 1 h0 txt me 1st last week f i not mstken!"
DAUGHTER: Huh? I don't think I ever texted you and why would you even say hi if you only want to know who I am?
PRANKSTER: Wat? Y did u telling dis 2 me.?.Or just kidding men...ryt?Oh my g0d c m0n d0nt mke me a f0ol..plz d0nt bear me h0pe u understand! Ok?.
DAUGHTER: What? I totally didn't understand your english. You need english lessons.
PRANKSTER: kc bo2 k tlaga! Kya d m0 naintindihan ang english q... (because you're stupid and can't understand english) plz check ur grammar..Ok?
DAUGHTER: You're unbelieveable. I'll just laugh at you. Pls go away now. Shoo! You're wasting me time.
PRANKSTER: Ok..I d0nt wnt 2 2lk any kind of idi0t pers0n..lyk u!" & i d0nt cre h0 da hell u r..Ok,, ur wish s ur command! damn u! - d0nt txt me anym0re..idi0t..plz get 0ut of my lyf!" -ur such a pester! bastard!
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Yup! My sister-in-law told me that her 13 year old daughter watched the David Cook and David Archuleta Concert at the Mall of Asia concert ground last weekend. When I say ground, I do mean solid-honest-to-goodness-dustfull-soil. The concert venue was on a makeshift stage (although fully high-tech and quite awesome) with monoblocks or plastic chairs for seats. No way would I pay three thousand of my precious money just to get crushed and dirtied to watch a concert. I would not mind paying for a 3,000 Php ticket as long as the venue is posh, air-conditioned, carpeted and opulent.
My girls said I am such a hypocrite.
"Mom, you watched the freaking five-thousand-peso ticket to watch Michael Jackson lipsynched his way on a make-shift-stage-albeit-highly-techy-stage some 12 years ago!"
"Excuse me, it was pre-child-sexual-abuse-case Michael Jackson! Besides, the ticket was free and it was not such a bad experience for I was rubbing elbows with a 30-lb lighter Sharon Cuneta."
I don't know. Is the Philippines in economic crisis? I just see too much spending wherever I go.
Yesterday, Ethan and I attended the 6th birthday party of his best bud. The birthday was Mexican/Fiesta themed and was catered by a leading Mexican food provider. There was even a lechon and give-aways to the rafters. After the party I dropped by at a premiere events venue south of Manila as I was considering a place for my ma-in-law's 80th bash. I was given a quote for the event and I almost fainted! It was expensive but people don't seem to mind as there were four events simultaneously occurring while I was there. A lot of potential clients were there too for the food tasting of one of the in-house caterers. Catering is from 500 Php -2,000 Php per head ++. This is exclusive of the venue rent. Expensive but people are coveting for the said venue and caterers.
There's a Pussycat Dolls Concert coming sometime in June and tickets are in the high thousands too. Daughters 3 and 4 want to purchase tickets. These two are big fans of PCD. I overheard them talking that they should buy a certain brand of shampoo first so they could avail of the 50% discount.
"How much?" I asked
"Three thousand per" quipped daughter 4
"Not bad. So with the 50% discount the ticket would go for 1,500 Php each." I approvingly said.
"No mom. The three thousand pesos per ticket is the discounted price."
"Ay sows! You'll just be wasting good money. Pool your money together and buy a new air-conditioner unit. You've been pestering me for a new one and I see that on your own you could afford to buy one."
And that's that!
Dr. Hayden Kho Jr., Are You Sick? :)
by desperateblogger | 5/22/2009 10:27:00 AM | 2 special thoughts »The sex video brouhaha has done Katrina Halili a lot of notorious exposure and I guess she's loving every minute of it. Hayden Kho Jr. is now getting his second round of his 15-minute fame. His first round came when he and Vicki Belo were an item. The juicier part was when Belo reportedly dropped Hayden Jr, due to his infidelities prompting Hayden to stage a suicide attempt -or so they say. I heard that Lola Vicky Belo and him are back to their lovey-dovey tandem. Teka lang, suka ako. Lola is about my age and Kho Jr. is about daughter # 1's age. Move over Ashton and Demi.
Kho Jr. and Halili are not the victims here. The real victims here are Maricar Reyes and the string of other girls who were secretly video-taped by Hayden Jr. They were just one of Kho Jr's sex partners and had no idea that Hayden Jr. has a hang-up- to put it lightly. Hayden Kho Jr. is one sick doctor. However, the real-truly-honest-to-goodness culprit here is the person who allegedly swiped the videos from Hayden Kho Jr.'s laptop. The culprit should have thought of the implications of his act. Instead of hurting only Hayden Jr., the circle of affected people has become wider. Now, now. Don't look on this article as confirmed information. As I've said from the start, every internet-gossip-savvy pinoy/pinay is blogging about the sexy-dance video and now the sex video of Kho Jr. and Katrina Halili.
There are talk and speculation that Hayden Kho Jr.'s medical license will be revoked. In fairness to Hayden Jr, it was not his intent to publish his sex tapes. Those were just his personal and private collection to which you and I and the rest of the world is not part of. True, video-taping those highly controversial sex acts may be deemed perverted. However, I am sure there are lot of other people out there with some other quirks and irks that we know nothing of and the sex videos of Hayden Jr. should have been treated as such. Private and Personal. The involved sex partners should be the ones to press charges, not the Professional Regulation Board or the Senate!Now, taking all facts and fiction about Dr. Hayden Kho Jr. into consideration, would you still have him for your personal physician? :)
My cervical spondylosis has been acting up since last week. The pain was minimal at first but now the pain is quietly but deliberately growing in strength in spite of the medication. Why? I am really not stress-free. Although my doctor gives me anti-anxiety pills, the stress and problems are still there - not resolved. I just want to be stress-free but for that to happen I have to resolve my problems first which I can't do for it involves a lot of factors that are beyond my control. There are two plausible solutions though - increase my medication or win the lotto.For the meantime, I ask my readers to pray for me. Prayers are "magical" and do wonders. I just have to embrace I Peter 5:7 - Let Him have all your worries and cares, for He is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you.
"What kind of fad diet are you referring to this time?" I answered.
I have encountered and tried a lot of diets in the past. There's the "starvation" cum cleansing diet I followed religiously when I first enrolled at Slimmer's World. In fairness, I lost 30 lbs in a span of three months with that diet. Then there's the low-carb diet and the South Beach diet. Umm... did not really stick to it for I was still lean and fit when that diet was the fad. Then there's the low-fat low salt diet that I am forced to follow now for medical reasons.
I was not really into dieting for I used to work out a lot thus making my metabolism fast. I avoided too much starch, sweets and fat back then though. Then the inevitable happened. I stopped exercising and regulating my food intake. Ergo. I gained about more than 20 lbs in 7 years. At my age, it's no longer a breeze to lose weight.
Getting back to my daughter's question, I actually got interested in losing 7-10 lbs per week. I have already lost about 7 lbs since March and that is not very impressive. I need to really slim down by mid-July for I have two important functions to attend. The first one is the 80th birthday celebration of my mother-in-law and the second one is the wedding of my son's coach in high school. I have been tapped as one of the principal sponsors and by gawd! - I have to be the best looking daughter-in-law and best looking "ninang"!
So, I told daughter I'm in on her new-found diet. We started yesterday and she already lost 4 lbs. while I lost 3 lbs. Nothing to get excited about because the weight lost could all just be water. I'll wait until the end of the seven-day diet plan before I give my verdict. Meanwhile, boy am I hungry!
As promised, Debbie and Dana of Fil-Am Journey sent me some pictures of us while they were here in Manila. I picked the couple up at the Heritage Hotel and then had lunch at Mall of Asia. We were not able to hang out long for they had to catch the bus home to Debbie's hometown in Manaoag, Pangasinan. Prior to our meeting Debbie and I already talked over the phone. She sounded soft and sweet and meeting her personally confirmed my assessment of her. I was surprised that Dana knows a lot of Tagalog words - even swear words! Hahaha. He's so tall Debbie and I were dwarfed! He's one devoted and loving husband to Debbie though. They are both real lucky and blessed to have each other.
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I've always been against fiestas. True, fiestas are Filipino traditions since the Spanish time but! I do not condone the excessive spending and drinking and extravagance shown at such occasions. The town fiesta celebration in Bacoor is so extravagant and lavish. A total of six Hermanas each year are chosen for the next 10 years. These hermanas are given ample time to make sure they have money to spend when their time comes. Millions are spent by these hermanas. Millions that could have made sense and helped more if they gave it to charity and to other noble causes. Most hermanas (or their husbands) are politically inclined so there's really no need to ask where their funds come from.
I was browsing at some pictures taken during the parade and this one caught my attention. This was supposed to be a giant made of paper mache sponsored by Amarey.

With probably hundreds of staff hired and paid by the hermanas, surely someone must have noticed this error before the parade started. No one did. If only the money involved in fiestas were diverted to worthy causes like the better education to the greater Bacoor public school system, then I guess the rest of Bacoor would not be forced into dringking furified water. Amarey! Show your face!

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I once had a row with my one of my first three daughters and she said that I was never ever contented with what she does or with any aspect of her life. I said that that is not true for as her mother I was her greatest critic and number one fan. A mother's love is akin to the fruits of the Holy Spirit as mentioned in I Corinthians.
is not conceited; does not act foolishly; is not selfish;
is not easily provoked to anger; keeps no record of wrongs;
takes no pleasure in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth;
love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
and endures all things. ~I Corinthians 13:4-7
Happy Mother's Day!
According to an article I read, The Weight Health Connection, society has obviously influenced us on what an ideal woman and man should look like. The reality is, what looks attractive an weight is not necessarily a healthy weight. Take for example, a fashion model on the verge of being called anorexic may be viewed as attractive but common sense will tell us that that is definitely not a healthy weight. A man who pumps and bulks up might win body-building competition, but his physique might not be healthy too. The best way to measure if you're overweight or not is get your BMI and waist circumference. A BMI of 25 and over and waist circumference of 35 inches are indications that you are overweight. Check out the article for more information. Well, if you ask me, looking at the mirror is proof enough to see if you are overweight or not. Go look. No illusions this time.
After two hours of eating breakfast - sampling there is to sample in the buffet - the gravity was just too much. Here is a sequence of pictures where we all tried to jump. Daughter #2 was at first patient and understanding. Of course she would not expect these half-century old ladies to jump as high. Later, daughter #2 and some nosey onlookers were beside themselves laughing - at us. I even saw some unknown persons aim their mean DSLR at us. My friends and I plan to send over some of our pictures to either Oprah or Ellen. We'll try our best to reason out to these two hosts why we deserve an all expense-paid East to West Coast tour on an RV.
The pull of gravity was just too much so was the sucky timing of these oldies (but goodies). We were all supposed to count 1-2-3 jump. The thing is we can't even agree to jump on the "jump". We had such a blast! Failing to do the jump, we settled for these really cheesy poses.
Words are not needed to describe the following pictures taken at Anvaya Cove in Morong, Bataan. The pictures speak for themselves. My girlfriends and I may all well be past the half century mark but we all felt like we were still in or teens. Nothing has changed between us except that we've all grown wiser in many ways. Oh and we gained a lot of weight too.
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It made me feel like "Sisa" looking for Basilio and Crispin. Basilio! Crispin! Nasaan kayo?!
As I sat in one of these tables I could just imagine the ire of Dona Victorina as she was left to eat the chicken's neck in the tinola.
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Lunch Date with Fil-Am Journey Couple
by desperateblogger | 5/04/2009 08:07:00 AM | 2 special thoughts »Manny Pacquiao: New Light Welterweight Champion
by desperateblogger | 5/03/2009 12:01:00 PM | 7 special thoughts »
It was a very short fight. Ricky Hatton fell twice during the first round. He looked disoriented as he went off to his corner at the bell's prompt. Pacquaio looked relaxed - not a strand of hair out of place or a even the beginnings of a sweat on his face. Pacquiao's left hooked Hatton somewhere near the jaw and jugular area. Hatton's eyes looked up glazed and defeated. The fight was over. Manny Pacquiao won. Hatton's training staff underestimated the power of Dr. Manny Pacquiao.On we went to our first tourist stop of the day, Bagac, Morong, Bataan. I asked what was in Bagac and Myr said it's the place where they shoot Richard Gutierrez's Zorro. The place is a mini-village under construction. Replicas of Spanish houses circa 1800s were being put-together. The materials used were real antique wood, panels and posts. The place would eventually be opened to the public. But for now, only Zorro and us were allowed to. Photo on the left shows us at the authentic 1800s main door to a casita.
This was a photo documenting the preparation to jump.
The jumping picture was actually captured by daughter #2 in
Kim's camera. However, Kim being Kim, erased the
said picture. Daughter #3 said she has her own shot of the great jump.
Here's the jump pics from #3's digicam.The deleted picture was better. Kim!
picture was a lot better.

Below is a sampler picture of my friends. We've all accumulated weight over the years! But don't under estimate this bunch of sillies as they are all very successful in their chosen fields. One of them is even the co- CEO of Operation Blessings Asia (affiliated with the 700 Club). Our R & R was so much fun. We talked, laughed, reminisced, and ate without abate. The talk was everything and anything under the sun and moon. I guess we should have discussed best appetite suppressant as we well all seem to need to take one.

I was informed that a second wave of flu vaccinations would be sponsored by Sanofi Pasteur. I missed the first campaign and I have resolved that I will not miss the second Bakuna sa Flu campaign. Ethan and I were set for the flu shots. However, as Forrest Gump says “sh*ts happens”. Ethan contacted the trangkaso two days prior to the event. He was running a fever from 39° Celsius to 41° Celsius. I was in panic mode! My daughter (the doctor) thought of inserting an IV to better manage Ethan’s high fever. The fever was uncontrollable. My fault. I should have not missed the first Bakuna sa Flu campaign.
• Persons 50 years or above
• Children 6 months to 23 months
• Adults and children with chronic health conditions:
• Chronic health disease (congestive heart failure, hypertensive cardiovascular disease, valvular heart disease, rheumatic heart disease, stroke)
• Chronic lung disease (COPD, asthma, bronchitis)
• Chronic renal dysfunction
The event was wrapped up with Sanofi Pasteur in conjunction with Nuffnang Philippines giving out these bags filled with goodies. Thank you Sanofi Pasteur.














