Monday, May 24, 2010

I am a person who have gone through some awkward "duh" moments because of my frankness. No, I am not rude. I am just one of those persons who has to say what needed to be said... and that got me into a lot of trouble. I am not for duplicity. I will not beat around the bush or be condescending(sigh) just so I would not offend someone. That was before. Now that I am older, I find that there are ways to approach and handle sensitive matters without being rightly offensive. However! Here's a situation.

What if you gave an overly overweight person a ride and in the process the tire of your car (the side where the overly overweight person sat) was damage to the point that you had to buy a new tire? Right. I bought new a new tire to replace a month-old tire.I let it go and did not even mention it. However! The very same person is asking to ride with me on a long road trip. Short of driving away as fast as those cars I see on atv racing, what the heck am I suppose to do? Help!
Posted by desperateblogger On 5/24/2010 09:35:00 AM 5 comments


  1. If I were you, that would be a big NO- I'll carefully explain the reason why. And if letting him know what happened the last time will be of help supporting my reasons, then I will brought it up.

  2. Easier said than done....NO! Unless she's willing to put a downpayment [in full...hehe] for a new tire.

    Teka...baket ikaw lagi gusto nyang abalahin? Can it be because she's being declined by others because of that same reason?


  3. @ einz: say, it has to be no...

    @ huling: pwede! ako na lang yata ang pwede pero i think i have to say no. ang mahal ng gulong ngayon!

  4. hi po...

    eh, nagtataka lang po ako kung wala lang ba siyang sinabi nung na-flat ang gulong mo? tapos siguro dapat mo nang mag-say NO kasi may kamahalan nga ang mga gulong ngayon...


  5. Aside from being a mom, Are you some sort of a mortgage credit specialist? Seems like it in your posts.


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