To Flirt or Not

Yesterday, we celebrated my maiden aunt's 87th birthday. At 87, she is still strong and working as honorary principal in out church's elementary school. As she was blowing the candles in her cake we joked that she should make a wish and ask for a husband. She laughed and said "but I don't know how to get one". Being a teacher, my aunt did not have the time to look for a boyfriend much less a husband. Daughter # 2, the teacher, was the next target of well-meaning jokes. Her cousins joked that she should get cracking finding a boyfriend so as not to follow the steps of their great-aunt.

Daughter #2 is a no-nonsense one. She does not dilly-dally nor plays "cute" and "helpless". In other words, she is not a flirt. Maybe there's a site that could teach her to be one? I don't believe it! I actually stumbled on a site that teaches one how to flirt! The top advice is Focus outward. Keep your attention outside yourself, toward a particular flirting target or toward the general social environment. You can't flirt while you're self-absorbed. The online dating school also deals in topics such as dating, relationships, marriage, and romance. It has loads of articles dealing on different topics too like Building Self Esteem, The Art of Flirting, Romantic Dinner Ideas, How to Communicate with your Husband and many more. The site is a myriad of information and articles. Go check it out.